Parent Provides. Child Decides.
Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors
Module One: Parent Provides. Child Decides
Narrator: Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors.
Welcome to Module One: Parent Provides. Child Decides.
This PowerPoint introduces the concept of responsive feeding. Responsive feeding is a key dimension of responsive parenting involving reciprocity between child and caregiver during the feeding process. Caregivers are responsible for offering healthy meals and snacks to children. Children are responsible for deciding which and how much of the healthy foods offered they would like to eat. We often refer to this as parent provides, child decides Babies are born with the capacity to self-regulate their energy intake. They understand when they're hungry and when they're full. It is the responsibility of the caregiver to nurture this skill by understanding when an infant, and later toddler and preschooler, is communicating signs of hunger or fullness. During the first year of life, infants and caregivers learn to recognize and interpret both verbal and non-verbal communication skills for one another, including signals of hunger and satiety. This reciprocal process forms the basis for the emotional bonding or attachment and is essential to healthy social-emotional functioning. This reciprocal process must continue in the toddler and preschool years to further support social-emotional functioning. Responsive feeding supports this attachment when the caregiver responds in a predictable manner to a child's signs of hunger or fullness.
The child learns their cues will be understood and respected consistently. Responsive feeding supports self-regulation skills early in life that may predict future food intake and our responses as adults to hunger and satiety. In other words, whether as adults we stop eating when we feel full or only eat when we feel hungry. However, this can feel antithetical to many parents and caregivers. We make many decisions for our children in a year, day, and even hour. Relinquishing that control and allowing the child to communicate their own desires and make their own decisions is truly a skill -- a skill that takes patience, practice, and support -- support that you, as a home visitor, are primed to provide. Responsive feeding is grounded on three steps. The child provides a sign they are hungry or full. The caregiver recognizes and responds to these cues in an emotionally supportive and developmentally appropriate manner. This manner becomes predictable to the child. They know their cues will be understood and respected consistently. Caregivers need specific skills and knowledge in order to responsibly feed their child. They must understand and be able to articulate their child's individual signs of hunger and satiety. They must know how to determine when their child is ready for solids, including what developmental milestones signal a readiness for solid foods, and they need to be aware of appropriate foods and amounts to serve an infant, toddler, and preschooler.
This is where you can support families. Help parents build the necessary knowledge and skills in order to responsibly feed their child. Remember. A responsive feeding approach has many immediate benefits such as social-emotional functioning, but also sets the child on a path for long-term healthy diet and weight. Before you review infant feeding practices and hunger and satiety cues, it may be helpful to stop and reflect on your own perceptions of infant feeding, healthy infant weight, and the perceptions the families you work with may have. The next several slides provide an overview of the feeding needs during infancy. The first year of life is a period marked by the most rapid growth and physical development experienced throughout life. Infants should be fed on-demand, typically 10 to 12 times a day during the initial weeks of life, and eight to 12 times per day over the next few months. Infants younger than six months should only be given formula or breast milk and held while being fed. This is an opportunity for caregivers to bond with the baby. Hopefully, they can find a quiet space to hold the infant, make eye contact, talk to them, and look or listen for cues of fullness. Infants should never be given a propped bottle or given bottles while in the crib or allowed to walk around with a bottle. This doesn't allow responsive feeding practices such as building social-emotional functioning, since it lacks the one on one interaction between caregiver and child, nor does it support a caregiver listening and responding to hunger and satiety cues. Every infant is different.
They each have their own ways of telling you when they're hungry and when they are full. It is important to engage the family in a discussion of each individual child's cues. If the parents are unaware of them, this is a great opportunity to become aware of them together. It might be helpful to remind parents that understanding and responding to the early signs of hunger can prevent some of the less pleasant later signs of hunger, creating a more relaxed and enjoyable feeding for everyone. This is also an opportunity to remind families to look for their child's signs of fullness. This is often easier for breastfeeding families whose baby might fall asleep on the breast, stop latching, or turn their head away. Families who are bottle feeding may worry about wasting formula, and try to squeeze an extra ounce or two, even though their child is telling them they are full. Common signs of hunger for infants zero to three months includes putting his or her hands to their mouth, sucking, rooting, looking around for a nipple, pre-facial crying or grimacing, fussing, wakes, and tosses. Common cues of satiety include turning their head away from the nipple or bottle, falling asleep, showing interest in other things, closing the mouth, sealing their lips together, or spitting out the nipple.
As infants get a little older, around three to six months, their cues for hunger and satiety become more advanced. They are learning new ways of communicating. They might show they are hungry by moving their head towards the spoon or bottle, swiping food towards their mouth, crying or fussing, and during feedings, they may coo or smile at you to indicate they are still interested in eating. When they are full, they might lean away from the food, slow down or decrease the rate of sucking, spit out the nipple, turn away from the bottle, or start to become more interested in the spoon or other things. As mentioned earlier, responsive feeding includes a caregiver's ability to recognize and respond in an emotionally supportive and developmentally appropriate way. Therefore, caregivers need to understand important developmental milestones that signal a child's readiness for solid food.
Many parents are excited to introduce their child to solid food, however, introducing solid foods before a child is developmentally ready offers no nutritional advantages. Instead, it can lead to overfeeding, an improper balance of nutrients, substituting less nutritionally packed foods for breast milk or formula, and allergic reactions. We encourage families to wait until their baby is ready before starting solids, usually around six months. Families can look for signs such as fading of the tongue thrusting reflex. In other words, they are not pushing food out of their mouth and can move it to the back of their mouth. Babies zero to six months have a normal reflex of protruding the tongue out of the mouth when the lips are touched. This is a good thing for breast and bottle fed babies. It helps them latch. But this reflex usually goes away between four to six months, so babies can accept, manipulate, and swallow solid foods. If most of the food comes back out at you or baby sticks out his tongue before you get the spoon past his lips, he is not ready for solids. You can also look for signs that the sucking reflex has changed to allow coordinated swallowing.
When this happens, babies can move the food to the back of their mouth and swallow the food without choking in a coordinated manner. This goes along with the tongue thrust, but it can also be an indication that baby's mouth isn't mature enough to maneuver food from the front to the back to swallow. Sometimes, you'll see pocketing, where the food sits in baby's cheeks indefinitely. These babies may not have the sensory awareness to detect the food or know what to do with it. Try thickening the food to see if it helps. If it doesn't, baby is just not ready. Other signs to look for are when baby can sit with support, has good head and neck control. As infants reach developmental milestones, they will be able to tell caregivers in different ways when they are hungry and when they are full. Infants age six to nine months are considered middle infancy, and can usually tell caregivers they are hungry by reaching for their spoon or food or pointing to food. Sometimes they can even articulate sounds -- not necessarily words, but sounds a regular caregiver will learn to associate with hunger.
Signs of satiety at this age can typically be characterized by slowing during feeding time, clenching their mouth closed, or even pushing food away. You may even see the child playing with their food without showing interest in eating it. While you should allow infants to explore new foods and textures, when they show signs they are no longer hungry, then it is time to transition to a new interaction. As infants get closer to the toddler stage, they may express hunger in more sophisticated ways. They may reach for their spoon or food, point to food, get excited when food is present, or -- food with specific words or sounds. Some child care providers will even teach infants at this stage sign language to signal when they are hungry or want more food. This can help with frustration for both the hungry infant and busy parent.
Late infancy satiety cues might include slowing down while eating, clenching mouth shut or pushing food away, or even shaking their head, no, when asked if they want more. Infants at this age should be given tools to communicate their hunger or fullness to caregivers. It is also a prime opportunity to engage families in collaborating in efforts to build language skills during meal time. Around 9 to 12 months, infants will also begin drinking less breast milk or formula, but they still need at least 28 ounces of formula per day. They will begin to develop the pincher grasp, and you should always offer water instead of juice. Juice is not recommended for infants. The goal is to wean the baby from the bottle by 12 months, but no later than 18 months. Home visitors want to help families identify their own baby's hunger and satiety cues. Here are some questions you can ask with them.
How did your baby tell you when they are full or hungry? Sit quietly and look your baby in the eye. Your baby is learning who you are and how much you love them. And you can discuss with families how to know when their baby is ready to start solids. As babies grow into toddlers and preschoolers, their eating environment changes. They start to find independence, develop food jags where they eat the same food over and over, and build fine motor skills that allow them to use utensils and serve themselves. The responsive feeding habits built in the first year of life serve as the cornerstone of a positive eating environment. Did you know that the environment in which a child is fed, not just the foods they're fed, affect what and how much a child may eat? Research has linked non-ideal environments -- negative impact on intake and child weight. For example, conflict during meal time predicts a heavier weight in preschool children, or watching TV during mealtime predicted less healthy eating, such as food containing high fat, as well as low fruit and vegetable consumption. Families should approach meals as an opportunity to connect and bond with their child, as well as guide them to healthy eating habits. Remind them to establish an open rapport with their child and give them eye contact.
Turn off the TV and put away the phone. You can remind families their child is more likely to accept food offered to them when they receive positive comments from their parent or caregiver. In a cross-sectional observation study in Vietnamese mother/child pairs, it was found that children aged 12 to 18 months were nearly 2 and 1/2 times more likely to accept the food offered to them when they received positive comments from the parent or caregiver, compared to those who received no encouragement at all. Help families establish clear expectations and routines. They may not be able to eat meals as a family every single night, but set aside specific days or times when they can. Encourage families to keep this as a family event. The role of routines has been well established and is vital to supporting their child's success in kindergarten. In addition, routines such as family meal time have been associated with reduced odds of obesity in preschoolers. Routines around mealtimes, such as eating in the same place and at the same time ensure the child has a supportive and comfortable experience. To clear expectations within a positive eating environment, include the child's ability or responsibility to choose what foods from those offered they will eat and how much they will eat.
They are also able to decline food, decide when they're full, or change their minds and try something they already declined. Remember. Parent provides, child decides. Responsive feeding asks children to listen to their internal hunger and fullness cues, builds skills and self-control regarding food intake, promotes attentiveness and interest in feeding, and the ability to communicate their needs. The child must be given the opportunity to listen to these cues and the independence to make healthy choices. With all of that said, it does not mean the child controls the meal environment, only that the child has an opportunity to listen to their body. It is the parent's responsibility to offer healthy foods. The child should not be asked to choose between french fries and apple slices, but rather between apple and orange. The parent is also responsible for building meal time routines, including establishing a positive social environment.
The social environment in which children eat can affect their eating behaviors. If mealtime is used as a time of conflict or discipline, children have been shown to associate eating with those same feelings. Parent reports of negative mealtime practices, such as hurrying children to eat and requiring children to clean their plates were associated with higher child weight for health percentiles. Conversely, parents' healthful nutrition attitudes coincided with more pleasant mealtime experiences, fewer suboptimal mealtime practices, and fewer child eating problems.
Parents are also responsible for supporting their child's ability to listen to their body's cues of hunger and fullness. Controlling what and how much a child eats may affect a child's food preference, ability to regulate energy intake or listen to their own hunger and satiety cues, and the amount of food consumed. In other words, the positive eating environment creates happier, healthier, and less picky eaters. Take this time to stop and reflect about mealtimes in your own childhood. Did you have family meal routines? What were they like? Do you have happy memories? What did you learn about your family over food? M
any of us grew up with the clean your plate mentality, that we need to finish all the food on our plate, or we are wasteful. However, as we have discussed, children learn how much food to choose by listening to their own hunger cues. It can be very difficult to break this way of thinking about meal time. As home visitors, you can acknowledge your own history with this clean your plate mentality. Did you grow up this way? How do you think it affected your relationship with food? You can also help families. Ask them the same questions, and then to identify the type of relationship they want their children to have with food, remind families this is a learning process. Try encouraging one serving at a time with appropriate measuring spoons to encourage children serving themselves appropriate amounts and listening to their hunger cues. It can also help families get used to an unclean plate.
Children can learn to associate foods with aspects of positive or negative social context. Repeatedly presenting a food in a positive context results in increased liking for that food. In contrast, presenting foods in a social context that generates more negative emotions -- for example, coercing a child to consume a food by offering a reward leads to decreased liking or willingness to try new foods. You might need to help families think of other ways they may reward or redirect their child -- ways that do not involve food, such as a favorite toy, activity with mom, or book. Please also discourage replacing food as a reward or punishment with screen time. It is easier said than done to support a child's internal cues of fullness. As adults, we don't know when a child is truly full, and many of our go-to encouragements are often not truly asking a child to reflect on their body's cues for fullness. We often use statements like, eat more of that or make sure you get enough.
These statements don't seem as improper or inadequate, but they don't ask a child to stop and reflect on what their body is telling them. Instead, try statements only the child can answer such as, what does your tummy feel like or what does your tummy feel like when it is full? This is a nuanced and challenging skill that can have lasting impact on the healthy eating habits of children. However, it won't be easy for many families to make this switch from a parent-led food environment to a positive child-led food environment. You can help families build skills that encourage their child to understand and listen to their cues of hunger or fullness. Have they ever asked their child what their tummy feels like when it is full? You can problem solve common family concerns such as picky eaters or worrying that a child isn't eating enough. Meal routines and role modeling are powerful allies against a picky eater -- something we talk more about in our next module. Strategize how they might create a mealtime routine that works within their family schedule, goals, and challenges.
How often do they eat meals as a family? What are some things from their own childhood they wished they did more with their family? Families may need to start small, such as eating meals as a family once a week or turning off the TV during meals occasionally, but not every time. However, these small victories can easily be built into bigger ones as the family learns what works for them. And help them find ways to involve their children in mealtime. This can include setting the table, basic food prep such as washing fruits or vegetables, or even helping stir or mix ingredients. Also, give families ways they can encourage their children in positive interaction during meal time. Is there something from your lesson plan this week they can practice during family meal, such as colors, shapes, or counting?
Caregivers often attribute feeding problems to their child. They are just picky. But it may be easier to change children's behavior -- their willingness to try new foods -- by altering the caregiver's behavior. Time, perception, family, and culture may influence the feeding style of the parent or caregiver. For example, parents who dislike controlling behavior usually have demands on their time and resources, and feel pressured. The feeding environment may often be characterized by frustration and inattention to the child's verbal and internal cues. The child may often throw around or refuse to eat in order to attract the attention of their parents. Encourage families to use meal time as an opportunity to leave these stressors, even for a short while. Help them identify ways they can build a positive meal experience at home. While they are building these new healthy habits, remind parents to be patient. Encourage children to try new foods, but don't force them. Parent provides, child decides. Limit distractions, including screen time, to allow time to focus and talk with their child. Help families link new foods back to your lesson plans-- a child's favorite book, story, or even game. Get creative, especially with your picky eaters. Experiment with different food combinations, tastes, textures, and ways to encourage.
And help parents pick times for family meals when they won't be rushed. 30 minutes for a snack and 45 minutes for a meal should be plenty of time to choose healthy foods, introduce new ones, and encourage their child to lead the meal and have fun. If you are looking for additional support around healthy, active living, the behaviors we want families to adopt, and more strategies that may help your families, you may find the Growing Healthy suite of tools helpful.
You can find these on ECLKC within the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness Healthy Active Living resources.
Learn what responsive feeding is and why it is important. Discover the meaning of “Parent Provides. Child Decides.” and how to support it.
Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors
Module One: Parent Provides. Child Decides
Narrator: Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors.
Welcome to Module One: Parent Provides. Child Decides.
This PowerPoint introduces the concept of responsive feeding. Responsive feeding is a key dimension of responsive parenting involving reciprocity between child and caregiver during the feeding process. Caregivers are responsible for offering healthy meals and snacks to children. Children are responsible for deciding which and how much of the healthy foods offered they would like to eat. We often refer to this as parent provides, child decides Babies are born with the capacity to self-regulate their energy intake. They understand when they're hungry and when they're full. It is the responsibility of the caregiver to nurture this skill by understanding when an infant, and later toddler and preschooler, is communicating signs of hunger or fullness. During the first year of life, infants and caregivers learn to recognize and interpret both verbal and non-verbal communication skills for one another, including signals of hunger and satiety. This reciprocal process forms the basis for the emotional bonding or attachment and is essential to healthy social-emotional functioning. This reciprocal process must continue in the toddler and preschool years to further support social-emotional functioning. Responsive feeding supports this attachment when the caregiver responds in a predictable manner to a child's signs of hunger or fullness.
The child learns their cues will be understood and respected consistently. Responsive feeding supports self-regulation skills early in life that may predict future food intake and our responses as adults to hunger and satiety. In other words, whether as adults we stop eating when we feel full or only eat when we feel hungry. However, this can feel antithetical to many parents and caregivers. We make many decisions for our children in a year, day, and even hour. Relinquishing that control and allowing the child to communicate their own desires and make their own decisions is truly a skill -- a skill that takes patience, practice, and support -- support that you, as a home visitor, are primed to provide. Responsive feeding is grounded on three steps. The child provides a sign they are hungry or full. The caregiver recognizes and responds to these cues in an emotionally supportive and developmentally appropriate manner. This manner becomes predictable to the child. They know their cues will be understood and respected consistently. Caregivers need specific skills and knowledge in order to responsibly feed their child. They must understand and be able to articulate their child's individual signs of hunger and satiety. They must know how to determine when their child is ready for solids, including what developmental milestones signal a readiness for solid foods, and they need to be aware of appropriate foods and amounts to serve an infant, toddler, and preschooler.
This is where you can support families. Help parents build the necessary knowledge and skills in order to responsibly feed their child. Remember. A responsive feeding approach has many immediate benefits such as social-emotional functioning, but also sets the child on a path for long-term healthy diet and weight. Before you review infant feeding practices and hunger and satiety cues, it may be helpful to stop and reflect on your own perceptions of infant feeding, healthy infant weight, and the perceptions the families you work with may have. The next several slides provide an overview of the feeding needs during infancy. The first year of life is a period marked by the most rapid growth and physical development experienced throughout life. Infants should be fed on-demand, typically 10 to 12 times a day during the initial weeks of life, and eight to 12 times per day over the next few months. Infants younger than six months should only be given formula or breast milk and held while being fed. This is an opportunity for caregivers to bond with the baby. Hopefully, they can find a quiet space to hold the infant, make eye contact, talk to them, and look or listen for cues of fullness. Infants should never be given a propped bottle or given bottles while in the crib or allowed to walk around with a bottle. This doesn't allow responsive feeding practices such as building social-emotional functioning, since it lacks the one on one interaction between caregiver and child, nor does it support a caregiver listening and responding to hunger and satiety cues. Every infant is different.
They each have their own ways of telling you when they're hungry and when they are full. It is important to engage the family in a discussion of each individual child's cues. If the parents are unaware of them, this is a great opportunity to become aware of them together. It might be helpful to remind parents that understanding and responding to the early signs of hunger can prevent some of the less pleasant later signs of hunger, creating a more relaxed and enjoyable feeding for everyone. This is also an opportunity to remind families to look for their child's signs of fullness. This is often easier for breastfeeding families whose baby might fall asleep on the breast, stop latching, or turn their head away. Families who are bottle feeding may worry about wasting formula, and try to squeeze an extra ounce or two, even though their child is telling them they are full. Common signs of hunger for infants zero to three months includes putting his or her hands to their mouth, sucking, rooting, looking around for a nipple, pre-facial crying or grimacing, fussing, wakes, and tosses. Common cues of satiety include turning their head away from the nipple or bottle, falling asleep, showing interest in other things, closing the mouth, sealing their lips together, or spitting out the nipple.
As infants get a little older, around three to six months, their cues for hunger and satiety become more advanced. They are learning new ways of communicating. They might show they are hungry by moving their head towards the spoon or bottle, swiping food towards their mouth, crying or fussing, and during feedings, they may coo or smile at you to indicate they are still interested in eating. When they are full, they might lean away from the food, slow down or decrease the rate of sucking, spit out the nipple, turn away from the bottle, or start to become more interested in the spoon or other things. As mentioned earlier, responsive feeding includes a caregiver's ability to recognize and respond in an emotionally supportive and developmentally appropriate way. Therefore, caregivers need to understand important developmental milestones that signal a child's readiness for solid food.
Many parents are excited to introduce their child to solid food, however, introducing solid foods before a child is developmentally ready offers no nutritional advantages. Instead, it can lead to overfeeding, an improper balance of nutrients, substituting less nutritionally packed foods for breast milk or formula, and allergic reactions. We encourage families to wait until their baby is ready before starting solids, usually around six months. Families can look for signs such as fading of the tongue thrusting reflex. In other words, they are not pushing food out of their mouth and can move it to the back of their mouth. Babies zero to six months have a normal reflex of protruding the tongue out of the mouth when the lips are touched. This is a good thing for breast and bottle fed babies. It helps them latch. But this reflex usually goes away between four to six months, so babies can accept, manipulate, and swallow solid foods. If most of the food comes back out at you or baby sticks out his tongue before you get the spoon past his lips, he is not ready for solids. You can also look for signs that the sucking reflex has changed to allow coordinated swallowing.
When this happens, babies can move the food to the back of their mouth and swallow the food without choking in a coordinated manner. This goes along with the tongue thrust, but it can also be an indication that baby's mouth isn't mature enough to maneuver food from the front to the back to swallow. Sometimes, you'll see pocketing, where the food sits in baby's cheeks indefinitely. These babies may not have the sensory awareness to detect the food or know what to do with it. Try thickening the food to see if it helps. If it doesn't, baby is just not ready. Other signs to look for are when baby can sit with support, has good head and neck control. As infants reach developmental milestones, they will be able to tell caregivers in different ways when they are hungry and when they are full. Infants age six to nine months are considered middle infancy, and can usually tell caregivers they are hungry by reaching for their spoon or food or pointing to food. Sometimes they can even articulate sounds -- not necessarily words, but sounds a regular caregiver will learn to associate with hunger.
Signs of satiety at this age can typically be characterized by slowing during feeding time, clenching their mouth closed, or even pushing food away. You may even see the child playing with their food without showing interest in eating it. While you should allow infants to explore new foods and textures, when they show signs they are no longer hungry, then it is time to transition to a new interaction. As infants get closer to the toddler stage, they may express hunger in more sophisticated ways. They may reach for their spoon or food, point to food, get excited when food is present, or -- food with specific words or sounds. Some child care providers will even teach infants at this stage sign language to signal when they are hungry or want more food. This can help with frustration for both the hungry infant and busy parent.
Late infancy satiety cues might include slowing down while eating, clenching mouth shut or pushing food away, or even shaking their head, no, when asked if they want more. Infants at this age should be given tools to communicate their hunger or fullness to caregivers. It is also a prime opportunity to engage families in collaborating in efforts to build language skills during meal time. Around 9 to 12 months, infants will also begin drinking less breast milk or formula, but they still need at least 28 ounces of formula per day. They will begin to develop the pincher grasp, and you should always offer water instead of juice. Juice is not recommended for infants. The goal is to wean the baby from the bottle by 12 months, but no later than 18 months. Home visitors want to help families identify their own baby's hunger and satiety cues. Here are some questions you can ask with them.
How did your baby tell you when they are full or hungry? Sit quietly and look your baby in the eye. Your baby is learning who you are and how much you love them. And you can discuss with families how to know when their baby is ready to start solids. As babies grow into toddlers and preschoolers, their eating environment changes. They start to find independence, develop food jags where they eat the same food over and over, and build fine motor skills that allow them to use utensils and serve themselves. The responsive feeding habits built in the first year of life serve as the cornerstone of a positive eating environment. Did you know that the environment in which a child is fed, not just the foods they're fed, affect what and how much a child may eat? Research has linked non-ideal environments -- negative impact on intake and child weight. For example, conflict during meal time predicts a heavier weight in preschool children, or watching TV during mealtime predicted less healthy eating, such as food containing high fat, as well as low fruit and vegetable consumption. Families should approach meals as an opportunity to connect and bond with their child, as well as guide them to healthy eating habits. Remind them to establish an open rapport with their child and give them eye contact.
Turn off the TV and put away the phone. You can remind families their child is more likely to accept food offered to them when they receive positive comments from their parent or caregiver. In a cross-sectional observation study in Vietnamese mother/child pairs, it was found that children aged 12 to 18 months were nearly 2 and 1/2 times more likely to accept the food offered to them when they received positive comments from the parent or caregiver, compared to those who received no encouragement at all. Help families establish clear expectations and routines. They may not be able to eat meals as a family every single night, but set aside specific days or times when they can. Encourage families to keep this as a family event. The role of routines has been well established and is vital to supporting their child's success in kindergarten. In addition, routines such as family meal time have been associated with reduced odds of obesity in preschoolers. Routines around mealtimes, such as eating in the same place and at the same time ensure the child has a supportive and comfortable experience. To clear expectations within a positive eating environment, include the child's ability or responsibility to choose what foods from those offered they will eat and how much they will eat.
They are also able to decline food, decide when they're full, or change their minds and try something they already declined. Remember. Parent provides, child decides. Responsive feeding asks children to listen to their internal hunger and fullness cues, builds skills and self-control regarding food intake, promotes attentiveness and interest in feeding, and the ability to communicate their needs. The child must be given the opportunity to listen to these cues and the independence to make healthy choices. With all of that said, it does not mean the child controls the meal environment, only that the child has an opportunity to listen to their body. It is the parent's responsibility to offer healthy foods. The child should not be asked to choose between french fries and apple slices, but rather between apple and orange. The parent is also responsible for building meal time routines, including establishing a positive social environment.
The social environment in which children eat can affect their eating behaviors. If mealtime is used as a time of conflict or discipline, children have been shown to associate eating with those same feelings. Parent reports of negative mealtime practices, such as hurrying children to eat and requiring children to clean their plates were associated with higher child weight for health percentiles. Conversely, parents' healthful nutrition attitudes coincided with more pleasant mealtime experiences, fewer suboptimal mealtime practices, and fewer child eating problems.
Parents are also responsible for supporting their child's ability to listen to their body's cues of hunger and fullness. Controlling what and how much a child eats may affect a child's food preference, ability to regulate energy intake or listen to their own hunger and satiety cues, and the amount of food consumed. In other words, the positive eating environment creates happier, healthier, and less picky eaters. Take this time to stop and reflect about mealtimes in your own childhood. Did you have family meal routines? What were they like? Do you have happy memories? What did you learn about your family over food? M
any of us grew up with the clean your plate mentality, that we need to finish all the food on our plate, or we are wasteful. However, as we have discussed, children learn how much food to choose by listening to their own hunger cues. It can be very difficult to break this way of thinking about meal time. As home visitors, you can acknowledge your own history with this clean your plate mentality. Did you grow up this way? How do you think it affected your relationship with food? You can also help families. Ask them the same questions, and then to identify the type of relationship they want their children to have with food, remind families this is a learning process. Try encouraging one serving at a time with appropriate measuring spoons to encourage children serving themselves appropriate amounts and listening to their hunger cues. It can also help families get used to an unclean plate.
Children can learn to associate foods with aspects of positive or negative social context. Repeatedly presenting a food in a positive context results in increased liking for that food. In contrast, presenting foods in a social context that generates more negative emotions -- for example, coercing a child to consume a food by offering a reward leads to decreased liking or willingness to try new foods. You might need to help families think of other ways they may reward or redirect their child -- ways that do not involve food, such as a favorite toy, activity with mom, or book. Please also discourage replacing food as a reward or punishment with screen time. It is easier said than done to support a child's internal cues of fullness. As adults, we don't know when a child is truly full, and many of our go-to encouragements are often not truly asking a child to reflect on their body's cues for fullness. We often use statements like, eat more of that or make sure you get enough.
These statements don't seem as improper or inadequate, but they don't ask a child to stop and reflect on what their body is telling them. Instead, try statements only the child can answer such as, what does your tummy feel like or what does your tummy feel like when it is full? This is a nuanced and challenging skill that can have lasting impact on the healthy eating habits of children. However, it won't be easy for many families to make this switch from a parent-led food environment to a positive child-led food environment. You can help families build skills that encourage their child to understand and listen to their cues of hunger or fullness. Have they ever asked their child what their tummy feels like when it is full? You can problem solve common family concerns such as picky eaters or worrying that a child isn't eating enough. Meal routines and role modeling are powerful allies against a picky eater -- something we talk more about in our next module. Strategize how they might create a mealtime routine that works within their family schedule, goals, and challenges.
How often do they eat meals as a family? What are some things from their own childhood they wished they did more with their family? Families may need to start small, such as eating meals as a family once a week or turning off the TV during meals occasionally, but not every time. However, these small victories can easily be built into bigger ones as the family learns what works for them. And help them find ways to involve their children in mealtime. This can include setting the table, basic food prep such as washing fruits or vegetables, or even helping stir or mix ingredients. Also, give families ways they can encourage their children in positive interaction during meal time. Is there something from your lesson plan this week they can practice during family meal, such as colors, shapes, or counting?
Caregivers often attribute feeding problems to their child. They are just picky. But it may be easier to change children's behavior -- their willingness to try new foods -- by altering the caregiver's behavior. Time, perception, family, and culture may influence the feeding style of the parent or caregiver. For example, parents who dislike controlling behavior usually have demands on their time and resources, and feel pressured. The feeding environment may often be characterized by frustration and inattention to the child's verbal and internal cues. The child may often throw around or refuse to eat in order to attract the attention of their parents. Encourage families to use meal time as an opportunity to leave these stressors, even for a short while. Help them identify ways they can build a positive meal experience at home. While they are building these new healthy habits, remind parents to be patient. Encourage children to try new foods, but don't force them. Parent provides, child decides. Limit distractions, including screen time, to allow time to focus and talk with their child. Help families link new foods back to your lesson plans-- a child's favorite book, story, or even game. Get creative, especially with your picky eaters. Experiment with different food combinations, tastes, textures, and ways to encourage.
And help parents pick times for family meals when they won't be rushed. 30 minutes for a snack and 45 minutes for a meal should be plenty of time to choose healthy foods, introduce new ones, and encourage their child to lead the meal and have fun. If you are looking for additional support around healthy, active living, the behaviors we want families to adopt, and more strategies that may help your families, you may find the Growing Healthy suite of tools helpful.
You can find these on ECLKC within the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness Healthy Active Living resources.
Family Mealtime
Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors
Module Two
Narrator: Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors. Welcome to Module Two. Family meal time can be an important opportunity to support child development. This is the second module in a three-part series targeting healthy eating at home. This particular module explores the role family meal time can play as a learning opportunity to support development. We encourage you to review all three series in this module for more information about supporting responsive feeding and building healthy habits Eating and mealtimes are more than just food or nourishing our bodies. While important, food means much more to us than that. It is how we celebrate joy or even offer comfort to friends and loved ones in times of need.
Think back on a time when you celebrated a life event or family milestone. What food was served? How did you feel? What are your favorite memories?
So much about who we are, where we come from, and what we share with our children is centered around food. Why is it then that we don't use food in our classrooms or home visits as often as we might? Take a moment to reflect on your experiences using food as a learning tool in past home visits or classroom lesson plans. What were you teaching? How did you use food to convey this message? Meal time can be a logical supplement and support to the weekly lesson plans you build with families. It might also be helpful to consider the skills practiced during meal time within the context of the Early Learning Framework. For example, how does mealtime support social and emotional development, cognition, language, motor and physical development, and of course, approaches to learning? The next few slides give several examples of how mealtime can support all of these domains of early learning.
But more importantly, they can support your early learning goals targeted within your lesson plans each week. For example, a learning goal for you and the family is to develop their 2-year-old's language development. While you might spend your 90 minutes that week on a separate activity, mealtimes are an identifiable, tangible time families can support their child one on one with these skills. Or you might use food and nutrition in your weekly lesson plan. For example, your learning goals lie within the cognition and mathematics development domain. How might you use food as a teaching tool, not just at meal time but within your weekly lesson plan? Meal times in early infancy was very different than in toddlers, preschoolers, or even late infancy. If you remember from our first module, before the introduction of solids, infants are fed only breast milk or formula and on demand. However, these feeding can still be learning opportunities. When a caregiver holds a baby and makes eye contact, they are building social and emotional functioning. The infant and caregiver are forging a trusting relationship. The infant communicates hunger and fullness in the language they have available.
When the caregiver listens and responds to these communications, the infant learns this is a trusting and supportive relationship. Furthermore, the caregiver can build language skills by talking to their infant during feeding. Sharing words, facial expressions, and laughter support cognition and language development. In time, infants will build motor skills that can be supported during meal time. The infant will hold its own bottle, sit up with support, and as solid foods are introduced, practice fine motor skills, such as grasping, hand eye coordination, manipulating small objects such as utensils. The caregiver can use mealtime as an opportunity to support all these learning domains. As infants grow, they reach different feeding milestones. They develop the ability to sit without support. As spoons are introduced, they develop fine motor skills by manipulating utensils. They also develop a pincher grasp around nine months. Mealtimes are a perfect opportunity to practice the fine motor skills by picking up small food items such as fresh fruits or vegetables. Additionally, this is a great opportunity to explore textures of different foods, but also the same foods. Caregivers can serve different shapes and colors. As we discussed in the first module of this series, infants develop more advanced communication skills, especially when expressing hunger or fullness cues.
Many providers offer sign language as a method for building these communication skills in addition to cognition. And the social emotional bond and trusting relationship continue to be supported during meal time. As infants grow into toddlers, they can interact more with caregivers and begin building skills needed to participate in family style meals. They begin to learn meal time expectations, such as table manners, timing, how to interact throughout a meal, and once the meal is over. This was also an opportunity for families to share stories about their own childhood, their day, or even make believe. As we mentioned in the beginning of this module, food is more to us than nourishment. It often ties back to our family culture, our community, or even ethnicity. Meals are a great opportunity to share our culture with our children and cultivate a connection in the family and their community. Families can reinforce your lesson plan by cutting foods in shapes. They can engage their child in counting food items, such as how many apple slices do you have. They can offer different textures or cooking methods, especially with new foods that maybe weren't accepted initially, such as baked sweet potato, versus mashed, versus cut into long strips for dipping.
And involve children in preparing food. As their skills develop, they can set the table or wherever a family shares the meal, wash fruit and vegetables, stir, pour, mix, and even measure. It might help reminding parents these strategies not only help their child learn but make mealtime fun, an important strategy with picky eaters. Mealtimes are an opportunity for toddlers and preschoolers to learn. As the child ages and matures, families can be even more creative. They can use clear pitchers and glasses to build logic and math skills. Spatial awareness comes with a visual picture of how much they've poured. Clear pitchers allow children to discriminate between less and more. And as the child's skills develop, they can be trusted with more mealtime responsibilities. First and foremost about this module is the message that parents are their child's first teacher. Their child looks to the parent for guidance, communication, laughter, love, and role modeling expectations. Mealtimes are a great opportunity for all of those. Encourage parents to limit distractions and spend one on one time with their family to interact, make eye contact, demonstrate joy, laughter, and love.
Share facial expressions. Even silly faces can build communication skills. And above all, mealtimes are the perfect opportunity for parents to teach healthy habits by showing the healthy foods they eat. Especially as babies develop the pincher grasp and parents often are tempted to share food, it is important, their food, which the infant will inevitably want, is healthy. This builds the expectations of what food their child should eat. Within this context, meals can also support goals developed within the Family Engagement Framework. The program impact areas include building family partnerships and teaching and learning. As a home visitor, you are partnering with the family to build specific learning goals, which can be supported during meal time. In addition, you can also build family health goals, such as eating meals regularly as much as possible as a family, turning off screen time, or serving healthier foods. These are all commonly reflected in your family partnerships agreement.
A positive eating environment and responsive eating, something discussed in depth in module one, directly support many family engagement outcomes, such as family well-being, positive parent-child relationships, families as lifelong educators, and families as learners. Families may not think of meal time as an opportunity to teach their children anything. You can help families think of concrete ways they can support your lesson plan. Look for simple concrete things they can do during their next meal time, such as serve a red food if your lesson plan involves identifying red things. Talk about a character in a new book you brought. Incorporate a new word or maybe just a positive encouragement to their child. Meals or sometimes a rare opportunity for families to sit and get to know one another without distraction, without time commitment, and without outside stressors. Help them use this time as an opportunity for bonding and enjoying their children. They can tell a silly story from their childhood, a favorite memory, or just make their child laugh. These are sample questions you might use with families to introduce the learning opportunities within shared meal time.
If you are looking for additional support around healthy, active living, the behaviors we want families to adopt, and more strategies that may help your families, you may find The Little Voices for Healthy Choices helpful. You can find these on ECLKC within the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness Healthy Active Living resources. Activities like this are not only fun for you and your child, but they also give your child opportunities to practice and master new physical skills and skills of daily living. In this case, using a cup. Drinking from a cup is a complex physical skill that involves strength and coordination in hands and arms and coordination in the muscles of a child's lips, mouth, and tongue. They also expose your baby to language. The amount of adult language that young children hear, even as infants, predicts their vocabulary skills later on. It also exposes your baby to rhymes, which is part of an important early literacy skill called chronological awareness. The ability to make and use rhymes predicts children's literacy skills later in life. Activities like this are not only fun for you and your child, but they also expose your toddler or preschoolers to language, and the amount of adult language that young children hear, even in the first five years, predicts their vocabulary later on.
They expose your toddler or preschooler to rhymes, which is part of an important early literacy skill. The ability to make and use rhymes predicts children's literacy skills later on. They give your child a chance to think about science concepts, like where the milk goes when it soaks into the towel. And they encourage your child to build social skills, like cooperation and qualities like responsibility and helpfulness. You can also check out an initiative called I am Moving I am Learning.
The goals of I am Moving I am Learning include increasing the quantity and quality of physical activity, and improving healthy food choices for children every day. The I am Moving I am Learning tool is filled with quick and easy ideas for integrating movement, nutrition, and healthy habits into everyday life. It is available in two formats -- one for staff that visit families in the home and parents and one for classroom teachers and other caregivers. Staff that visit families in the home and parents discover a virtual world that includes places within the home as well as in the community. These staff members can use the tool with parents to share tips to help integrate learning into a family's daily routine with ease.
Parents can explore the tool on their own to gain ideas between home visitor visits. Places in the virtual world are intended to be areas where families regularly spend their time. This allows discussion around simple, fun activities families can do with their children.
The virtual home encourages discussion about oral health, fruits and vegetables, and helping with chores.
Family meal time can be an important opportunity to support child development. This is the second video in a three-part series targeting healthy eating at home. This video explores the role family meal time can play as a learning opportunity to support development.
Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors
Module Two
Narrator: Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors. Welcome to Module Two. Family meal time can be an important opportunity to support child development. This is the second module in a three-part series targeting healthy eating at home. This particular module explores the role family meal time can play as a learning opportunity to support development. We encourage you to review all three series in this module for more information about supporting responsive feeding and building healthy habits Eating and mealtimes are more than just food or nourishing our bodies. While important, food means much more to us than that. It is how we celebrate joy or even offer comfort to friends and loved ones in times of need.
Think back on a time when you celebrated a life event or family milestone. What food was served? How did you feel? What are your favorite memories?
So much about who we are, where we come from, and what we share with our children is centered around food. Why is it then that we don't use food in our classrooms or home visits as often as we might? Take a moment to reflect on your experiences using food as a learning tool in past home visits or classroom lesson plans. What were you teaching? How did you use food to convey this message? Meal time can be a logical supplement and support to the weekly lesson plans you build with families. It might also be helpful to consider the skills practiced during meal time within the context of the Early Learning Framework. For example, how does mealtime support social and emotional development, cognition, language, motor and physical development, and of course, approaches to learning? The next few slides give several examples of how mealtime can support all of these domains of early learning.
But more importantly, they can support your early learning goals targeted within your lesson plans each week. For example, a learning goal for you and the family is to develop their 2-year-old's language development. While you might spend your 90 minutes that week on a separate activity, mealtimes are an identifiable, tangible time families can support their child one on one with these skills. Or you might use food and nutrition in your weekly lesson plan. For example, your learning goals lie within the cognition and mathematics development domain. How might you use food as a teaching tool, not just at meal time but within your weekly lesson plan? Meal times in early infancy was very different than in toddlers, preschoolers, or even late infancy. If you remember from our first module, before the introduction of solids, infants are fed only breast milk or formula and on demand. However, these feeding can still be learning opportunities. When a caregiver holds a baby and makes eye contact, they are building social and emotional functioning. The infant and caregiver are forging a trusting relationship. The infant communicates hunger and fullness in the language they have available.
When the caregiver listens and responds to these communications, the infant learns this is a trusting and supportive relationship. Furthermore, the caregiver can build language skills by talking to their infant during feeding. Sharing words, facial expressions, and laughter support cognition and language development. In time, infants will build motor skills that can be supported during meal time. The infant will hold its own bottle, sit up with support, and as solid foods are introduced, practice fine motor skills, such as grasping, hand eye coordination, manipulating small objects such as utensils. The caregiver can use mealtime as an opportunity to support all these learning domains. As infants grow, they reach different feeding milestones. They develop the ability to sit without support. As spoons are introduced, they develop fine motor skills by manipulating utensils. They also develop a pincher grasp around nine months. Mealtimes are a perfect opportunity to practice the fine motor skills by picking up small food items such as fresh fruits or vegetables. Additionally, this is a great opportunity to explore textures of different foods, but also the same foods. Caregivers can serve different shapes and colors. As we discussed in the first module of this series, infants develop more advanced communication skills, especially when expressing hunger or fullness cues.
Many providers offer sign language as a method for building these communication skills in addition to cognition. And the social emotional bond and trusting relationship continue to be supported during meal time. As infants grow into toddlers, they can interact more with caregivers and begin building skills needed to participate in family style meals. They begin to learn meal time expectations, such as table manners, timing, how to interact throughout a meal, and once the meal is over. This was also an opportunity for families to share stories about their own childhood, their day, or even make believe. As we mentioned in the beginning of this module, food is more to us than nourishment. It often ties back to our family culture, our community, or even ethnicity. Meals are a great opportunity to share our culture with our children and cultivate a connection in the family and their community. Families can reinforce your lesson plan by cutting foods in shapes. They can engage their child in counting food items, such as how many apple slices do you have. They can offer different textures or cooking methods, especially with new foods that maybe weren't accepted initially, such as baked sweet potato, versus mashed, versus cut into long strips for dipping.
And involve children in preparing food. As their skills develop, they can set the table or wherever a family shares the meal, wash fruit and vegetables, stir, pour, mix, and even measure. It might help reminding parents these strategies not only help their child learn but make mealtime fun, an important strategy with picky eaters. Mealtimes are an opportunity for toddlers and preschoolers to learn. As the child ages and matures, families can be even more creative. They can use clear pitchers and glasses to build logic and math skills. Spatial awareness comes with a visual picture of how much they've poured. Clear pitchers allow children to discriminate between less and more. And as the child's skills develop, they can be trusted with more mealtime responsibilities. First and foremost about this module is the message that parents are their child's first teacher. Their child looks to the parent for guidance, communication, laughter, love, and role modeling expectations. Mealtimes are a great opportunity for all of those. Encourage parents to limit distractions and spend one on one time with their family to interact, make eye contact, demonstrate joy, laughter, and love.
Share facial expressions. Even silly faces can build communication skills. And above all, mealtimes are the perfect opportunity for parents to teach healthy habits by showing the healthy foods they eat. Especially as babies develop the pincher grasp and parents often are tempted to share food, it is important, their food, which the infant will inevitably want, is healthy. This builds the expectations of what food their child should eat. Within this context, meals can also support goals developed within the Family Engagement Framework. The program impact areas include building family partnerships and teaching and learning. As a home visitor, you are partnering with the family to build specific learning goals, which can be supported during meal time. In addition, you can also build family health goals, such as eating meals regularly as much as possible as a family, turning off screen time, or serving healthier foods. These are all commonly reflected in your family partnerships agreement.
A positive eating environment and responsive eating, something discussed in depth in module one, directly support many family engagement outcomes, such as family well-being, positive parent-child relationships, families as lifelong educators, and families as learners. Families may not think of meal time as an opportunity to teach their children anything. You can help families think of concrete ways they can support your lesson plan. Look for simple concrete things they can do during their next meal time, such as serve a red food if your lesson plan involves identifying red things. Talk about a character in a new book you brought. Incorporate a new word or maybe just a positive encouragement to their child. Meals or sometimes a rare opportunity for families to sit and get to know one another without distraction, without time commitment, and without outside stressors. Help them use this time as an opportunity for bonding and enjoying their children. They can tell a silly story from their childhood, a favorite memory, or just make their child laugh. These are sample questions you might use with families to introduce the learning opportunities within shared meal time.
If you are looking for additional support around healthy, active living, the behaviors we want families to adopt, and more strategies that may help your families, you may find The Little Voices for Healthy Choices helpful. You can find these on ECLKC within the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness Healthy Active Living resources. Activities like this are not only fun for you and your child, but they also give your child opportunities to practice and master new physical skills and skills of daily living. In this case, using a cup. Drinking from a cup is a complex physical skill that involves strength and coordination in hands and arms and coordination in the muscles of a child's lips, mouth, and tongue. They also expose your baby to language. The amount of adult language that young children hear, even as infants, predicts their vocabulary skills later on. It also exposes your baby to rhymes, which is part of an important early literacy skill called chronological awareness. The ability to make and use rhymes predicts children's literacy skills later in life. Activities like this are not only fun for you and your child, but they also expose your toddler or preschoolers to language, and the amount of adult language that young children hear, even in the first five years, predicts their vocabulary later on.
They expose your toddler or preschooler to rhymes, which is part of an important early literacy skill. The ability to make and use rhymes predicts children's literacy skills later on. They give your child a chance to think about science concepts, like where the milk goes when it soaks into the towel. And they encourage your child to build social skills, like cooperation and qualities like responsibility and helpfulness. You can also check out an initiative called I am Moving I am Learning.
The goals of I am Moving I am Learning include increasing the quantity and quality of physical activity, and improving healthy food choices for children every day. The I am Moving I am Learning tool is filled with quick and easy ideas for integrating movement, nutrition, and healthy habits into everyday life. It is available in two formats -- one for staff that visit families in the home and parents and one for classroom teachers and other caregivers. Staff that visit families in the home and parents discover a virtual world that includes places within the home as well as in the community. These staff members can use the tool with parents to share tips to help integrate learning into a family's daily routine with ease.
Parents can explore the tool on their own to gain ideas between home visitor visits. Places in the virtual world are intended to be areas where families regularly spend their time. This allows discussion around simple, fun activities families can do with their children.
The virtual home encourages discussion about oral health, fruits and vegetables, and helping with chores.
Building Healthy Mealtime Habits
Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors
Narrator: Welcome to the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness Training Module for Home Visitors. This module is aimed specifically at supporting the home visitor to engage families in a discussion about healthy habits and routines at home. Home-based services create the opportunity to support families often and on an individual level. It primes the home visitor to build a lasting and trusting relationship with family optimal for creating family-driven solutions to feeding challenges. The home visitor may be our best asset to understanding barriers and opportunities to building healthier feeding practices with families of young children. This is the third module in our three-part series.
We encourage you to review all three modules for a complete picture of the role of mealtime in early learning and how home visitor can support families. Caregivers are responsible for offering healthy meals and snacks to children. Children are responsible for deciding which and how much of the healthy foods offered they would like to eat. This is referred to as parent provides, child decides. Mealtime is an important opportunity to support child development and to build healthy habits together as a family. As we discussed in module two, eating and mealtimes are more than just food or nourishing our bodies. While important, food means much more to us than that. It is how we celebrate joy or even offer comfort to friends and loved ones in times of need.
Think back on a time when you celebrated a life event or family milestone. What food was served? How did you feel? What are your favorite memories?
So much about who we are, where we come from, and what we share with our children is centered around food. It is helpful to remember that food means much more to us than nutrition when talking with families about healthy habits, especially with their young children. Science shows us that by age two, children have assumed the eating habits of their family. Additionally, we are seeing vegetable consumption plummet to be replaced with starchy vegetables, such as potatoes, namely french fries, as early as 9 months of age. This means our EHS services and particularly home-based and family engagement services are vital to help parents build healthy habits for their families. It is truly never too early to start. In general, we know that children are not eating enough fruits and vegetables. The ones they are eating tend to be starchy vegetables, such as potatoes in the form of french fries. We know children are consuming too many sugary drinks with almost 30 percent of 12 to 24-month-olds reported consuming a sugary drink every day. We also know our young children are spending too much time in front of a screen and not getting enough sleep. We also know that screen time can affect the way we eat, what food we want to eat, how we sleep, and even how we learn.
Mealtimes provide opportunities to build healthy habits. In the previous slides, we established our eating habits begin early in life. But during this time, children are also learning about nutrition, meal time habits, and understanding their own food intake, how to know when they are full or hungry. Please refer to module one for a discussion on responsive feeding and fullness cues. Families should use mealtime as an opportunity. They can introduce and encourage their child to try new foods. Research has shown continued exposure to a food will increase the likelihood the child will eventually consume it. Some research has shown when preschool children were given opportunities during meals to observe other children choosing and eating vegetables that the observing child did not like, preferences for and intake of the disliked vegetable increased. This applies to parents, as well. Role modeling new and healthy foods is an important part of building healthy habits. Unfortunately, the reverse is also true. If a child sees adults modeling unhealthy eating habits, they are more likely to adopt these unhealthy habits themselves.
Mealtimes also provide opportunities for nutrition education, such as talking about healthy foods and food groups. Kids at this age love to group or categorize things, so you can teach them the food groups for MyPlate or ask them to group food according to shape, colors, texture, and more. Mealtime is an opportunity to teach the family about serving sizes.
This can be difficult for families as we are often tempted to consider serving sizes for a child comparable to an adult. This alone could be a drastic improvement in eating habits. For that reason, we will shortly look at the appropriate serving sizes for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. And mealtimes are an opportunity to offer a variety of healthy foods. Unfortunately, the diets of most young children need improvement. Children's diets typically mirror the deficiencies of their parents' diet -- high in fat, sodium, and sugar, and low in fiber. In a Nutrition Insight report from 2001, only 36 percent of 2- to 3-year-olds were noted as having a good diet. And this percentage decreased as the children got older. Much of the decline in diet quality for children occurred between the 2- to 3-year-old age group and the 4- to 6-year-old group, falling from 36 percent to 17 percent. You can approach healthy meal habits in multiple ways -- the goals of the family, exposing their child to common meal habits in school, or as a support for learning and healthy development. Please see module two for more information on using mealtime within the early learning framework and family engagement framework.
Why are family meals important?
They are an opportunity to help build independence. It provides children with opportunities to make decisions and take responsibility. In our first module, we talked about parent provides, child decides, or allowing children to determine what they want to eat and how much, what contributes to preventing children's hunger and increasing their feelings of nutrition security at school. Family meals also provide structure and build expectations of what should occur at meal time. These expectations and structure will prepare the child for the expectations and structure in kindergarten. Family mealtime enhances development of fine and gross motor skills and hand-eye coordination by asking children to pour, pass, serve, and share food. Mealtime can allow children to learn the coordination of physically manipulating utensils. Families can also use clear pitchers and glasses to build logic and math skills. And family mealtime enhances development of language and social skills. You can ask your children to practice table manners, learn appropriate mealtime behavior, such as please, thank you, not eating from serving bowls.
And it also builds self-esteem as children learn new skills. For more information about the learning opportunities, specifically skills within the learning domain, please reference module two. Our previous slide discussed the benefits of family meals to children.
But what are the benefits to families?
Family mealtime promotes a more enjoyable meal atmosphere as caregivers are able to sit and interact with their child. It also provides opportunities to talk with children and reinforce skills such as taking turns. Family mealtime decreases food waste as children learn to speak about the amount of food they want. It may not happen right away, as children are learning serve themselves. Family meals also improve mealtime behavior by providing a consistent structure for children, which allows them to learn appropriate meal behavior. You can encourage trying new foods, especially if the caregiver models healthy eating habits. Food insecurity during a child's first year threatens brain development.
Children and food-insecure families are likely to have unhealthy diets and inconsistent eating habits, placing them at risk for cognitive impairment, obesity, and other long-term problems. Food insecurity is not the same as hunger. Food-insecure families are often able to avoid hunger by choosing cheaper, more filling types of food over more costly, nutritious foods. Food insecurity has been linked to nutrient deficiencies that lead to learning and development problems, especially among infants and toddlers. Long-term effects include low achievement in school, emotional problems, and poor health. For young children, the result is often a diet that provides inadequate nutrients for normal growth and development.
A family is considered food insecure if they frequently are unable to afford balanced meals, reduce the size of meals because of lack of money, and reduce the quality and variety of their normal diet due to lack of money. A recent study found that compared to their peers in food-secure families, food-insecure children under age 3 are 90 percent more likely to have fair or poor health rather than good or excellent health, 31 percent more likely to spend time in the hospital, and 76 percent more likely to have problems in cognitive, language, and behavioral development. Food insecurity is not restricted to families in poverty.
Nationally, about 40 percent of poor families are food insecure, but many poor families avoid food insecurity through the assistance of safety net programs, charitable organizations, and other resources not included in the federal poverty measure. At the same time, many food-insecure families have incomes well above the poverty line. Low income families, families with incomes above poverty but below 200 percent of the poverty line, face many of the same difficulties that poor families face, including food security. A substantial portion -- about 20 percent to 30 percent -- of low income families are food insecure. Moreover, their higher incomes may make them ineligible for many forms of assistance that are available to families living in poverty.
Here are some assessment questions to consider as a home visitor. How often do you not have enough money to afford the kind of food you and your family should have? In the past six months, did you go without food because you did not have the money to pay for it? As a home visitor, make sure families are connected with support, as food pantries, SNAP, WIC, and more. A home visitor has the unique opportunity to work closely with families to support healthy eating habits, mealtime routines, and role modeling.
If you are looking for additional support around healthy, active living, the behaviors we want families to adopt, and more strategies that may help your families, you may find the Growing Healthy suite of tools helpful. You can find these on ECLKC within the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness, Healthy Active Living resources.
This module, the third in our three-part series, is designed to support home visitors in engaging families in a discussion about healthy habits and routines at home. Learn how to build a lasting and trusting relationship with families to help create family-driven solutions to feeding challenges.
Supporting Healthy Eating at Home: A Training Module for Home Visitors
Narrator: Welcome to the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness Training Module for Home Visitors. This module is aimed specifically at supporting the home visitor to engage families in a discussion about healthy habits and routines at home. Home-based services create the opportunity to support families often and on an individual level. It primes the home visitor to build a lasting and trusting relationship with family optimal for creating family-driven solutions to feeding challenges. The home visitor may be our best asset to understanding barriers and opportunities to building healthier feeding practices with families of young children. This is the third module in our three-part series.
We encourage you to review all three modules for a complete picture of the role of mealtime in early learning and how home visitor can support families. Caregivers are responsible for offering healthy meals and snacks to children. Children are responsible for deciding which and how much of the healthy foods offered they would like to eat. This is referred to as parent provides, child decides. Mealtime is an important opportunity to support child development and to build healthy habits together as a family. As we discussed in module two, eating and mealtimes are more than just food or nourishing our bodies. While important, food means much more to us than that. It is how we celebrate joy or even offer comfort to friends and loved ones in times of need.
Think back on a time when you celebrated a life event or family milestone. What food was served? How did you feel? What are your favorite memories?
So much about who we are, where we come from, and what we share with our children is centered around food. It is helpful to remember that food means much more to us than nutrition when talking with families about healthy habits, especially with their young children. Science shows us that by age two, children have assumed the eating habits of their family. Additionally, we are seeing vegetable consumption plummet to be replaced with starchy vegetables, such as potatoes, namely french fries, as early as 9 months of age. This means our EHS services and particularly home-based and family engagement services are vital to help parents build healthy habits for their families. It is truly never too early to start. In general, we know that children are not eating enough fruits and vegetables. The ones they are eating tend to be starchy vegetables, such as potatoes in the form of french fries. We know children are consuming too many sugary drinks with almost 30 percent of 12 to 24-month-olds reported consuming a sugary drink every day. We also know our young children are spending too much time in front of a screen and not getting enough sleep. We also know that screen time can affect the way we eat, what food we want to eat, how we sleep, and even how we learn.
Mealtimes provide opportunities to build healthy habits. In the previous slides, we established our eating habits begin early in life. But during this time, children are also learning about nutrition, meal time habits, and understanding their own food intake, how to know when they are full or hungry. Please refer to module one for a discussion on responsive feeding and fullness cues. Families should use mealtime as an opportunity. They can introduce and encourage their child to try new foods. Research has shown continued exposure to a food will increase the likelihood the child will eventually consume it. Some research has shown when preschool children were given opportunities during meals to observe other children choosing and eating vegetables that the observing child did not like, preferences for and intake of the disliked vegetable increased. This applies to parents, as well. Role modeling new and healthy foods is an important part of building healthy habits. Unfortunately, the reverse is also true. If a child sees adults modeling unhealthy eating habits, they are more likely to adopt these unhealthy habits themselves.
Mealtimes also provide opportunities for nutrition education, such as talking about healthy foods and food groups. Kids at this age love to group or categorize things, so you can teach them the food groups for MyPlate or ask them to group food according to shape, colors, texture, and more. Mealtime is an opportunity to teach the family about serving sizes.
This can be difficult for families as we are often tempted to consider serving sizes for a child comparable to an adult. This alone could be a drastic improvement in eating habits. For that reason, we will shortly look at the appropriate serving sizes for infants, toddlers, and preschoolers. And mealtimes are an opportunity to offer a variety of healthy foods. Unfortunately, the diets of most young children need improvement. Children's diets typically mirror the deficiencies of their parents' diet -- high in fat, sodium, and sugar, and low in fiber. In a Nutrition Insight report from 2001, only 36 percent of 2- to 3-year-olds were noted as having a good diet. And this percentage decreased as the children got older. Much of the decline in diet quality for children occurred between the 2- to 3-year-old age group and the 4- to 6-year-old group, falling from 36 percent to 17 percent. You can approach healthy meal habits in multiple ways -- the goals of the family, exposing their child to common meal habits in school, or as a support for learning and healthy development. Please see module two for more information on using mealtime within the early learning framework and family engagement framework.
Why are family meals important?
They are an opportunity to help build independence. It provides children with opportunities to make decisions and take responsibility. In our first module, we talked about parent provides, child decides, or allowing children to determine what they want to eat and how much, what contributes to preventing children's hunger and increasing their feelings of nutrition security at school. Family meals also provide structure and build expectations of what should occur at meal time. These expectations and structure will prepare the child for the expectations and structure in kindergarten. Family mealtime enhances development of fine and gross motor skills and hand-eye coordination by asking children to pour, pass, serve, and share food. Mealtime can allow children to learn the coordination of physically manipulating utensils. Families can also use clear pitchers and glasses to build logic and math skills. And family mealtime enhances development of language and social skills. You can ask your children to practice table manners, learn appropriate mealtime behavior, such as please, thank you, not eating from serving bowls.
And it also builds self-esteem as children learn new skills. For more information about the learning opportunities, specifically skills within the learning domain, please reference module two. Our previous slide discussed the benefits of family meals to children.
But what are the benefits to families?
Family mealtime promotes a more enjoyable meal atmosphere as caregivers are able to sit and interact with their child. It also provides opportunities to talk with children and reinforce skills such as taking turns. Family mealtime decreases food waste as children learn to speak about the amount of food they want. It may not happen right away, as children are learning serve themselves. Family meals also improve mealtime behavior by providing a consistent structure for children, which allows them to learn appropriate meal behavior. You can encourage trying new foods, especially if the caregiver models healthy eating habits. Food insecurity during a child's first year threatens brain development.
Children and food-insecure families are likely to have unhealthy diets and inconsistent eating habits, placing them at risk for cognitive impairment, obesity, and other long-term problems. Food insecurity is not the same as hunger. Food-insecure families are often able to avoid hunger by choosing cheaper, more filling types of food over more costly, nutritious foods. Food insecurity has been linked to nutrient deficiencies that lead to learning and development problems, especially among infants and toddlers. Long-term effects include low achievement in school, emotional problems, and poor health. For young children, the result is often a diet that provides inadequate nutrients for normal growth and development.
A family is considered food insecure if they frequently are unable to afford balanced meals, reduce the size of meals because of lack of money, and reduce the quality and variety of their normal diet due to lack of money. A recent study found that compared to their peers in food-secure families, food-insecure children under age 3 are 90 percent more likely to have fair or poor health rather than good or excellent health, 31 percent more likely to spend time in the hospital, and 76 percent more likely to have problems in cognitive, language, and behavioral development. Food insecurity is not restricted to families in poverty.
Nationally, about 40 percent of poor families are food insecure, but many poor families avoid food insecurity through the assistance of safety net programs, charitable organizations, and other resources not included in the federal poverty measure. At the same time, many food-insecure families have incomes well above the poverty line. Low income families, families with incomes above poverty but below 200 percent of the poverty line, face many of the same difficulties that poor families face, including food security. A substantial portion -- about 20 percent to 30 percent -- of low income families are food insecure. Moreover, their higher incomes may make them ineligible for many forms of assistance that are available to families living in poverty.
Here are some assessment questions to consider as a home visitor. How often do you not have enough money to afford the kind of food you and your family should have? In the past six months, did you go without food because you did not have the money to pay for it? As a home visitor, make sure families are connected with support, as food pantries, SNAP, WIC, and more. A home visitor has the unique opportunity to work closely with families to support healthy eating habits, mealtime routines, and role modeling.
If you are looking for additional support around healthy, active living, the behaviors we want families to adopt, and more strategies that may help your families, you may find the Growing Healthy suite of tools helpful. You can find these on ECLKC within the National Center on Early Childhood Health and Wellness, Healthy Active Living resources.
Three short webinars on responsive feeding and how home visitors can help families make the most of mealtimes.
Last Updated: June 3, 2024